The eye's had it ...

My brain is so addled lately that I don't remember if I told you this so I'll tell you again. When Ryan was 6 or 7, he was diagnosed with a hole in his retina. It was right at the spot where the image comes together and focuses. He had to have surgery to repair it. Part of the recovery process required him to lay face down for about a week (it may have been two, I'm not really sure) while the eye healed from the surgery. He's fucking six years old! How do you think he did? Yeah, not that great.
Fast forward ten years. He is 16 and a Junior in High School. He failed an eye exam given by the school and was referred to an optometrist. Well, the optometrist diagnosed him with a cataract and swelling on the retina of the eye. Either he didn't have the equipment or the skill, or the swelling in the eye prevented him from seeing if the hole was still there. He DID say that glasses wouldn't correct his problems and referred us to a specialist. That's where we are headed in a matter of hours.
I am sure he's going to have to have surgery. The question is, how complicated the procedure will be. I guess we will know in a few hours. To tell you the truth I'm a little worried about it so do me a favor. Whatever juju, good thoughts, prayers or live animal sacrifices you can send up, please think about my boy today and wish us luck. How's he doing you ask? I think he may be a little worried but he's 16 and at 16 you gotta be cool. After the last appointment I was trying to gauge his feelings.
Me: "You know you are probably gonna have to have surgery to repair that?"
Ryan: "Yeah." (***sound of gears turning in head***) "How many days you think I'll get off of school for that?"
Me: - - -
Fucking teenagers ... can't live with 'em, can't sell 'em into white slavery. Pffft!
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Good juju for the boy & you!
Posted by: Seamus | December 8, 2006 1:16 AM
Going out back to get a goat right now. Let me know how well my ritual works. I've been working out some kinks. If your son comes home with three eyes, it's TOTALLY not my fault!
Posted by: Biscuit | December 8, 2006 5:54 AM
I'll dance nekkid in the moonlight and light a few candles for the Goddess. Blessed Be.
Terri
Posted by: singbrla | December 8, 2006 6:57 AM
prayers for the boy and you. i can understand the anxiety for both of you. (hugs)
Posted by: lime | December 8, 2006 7:44 AM
Keeping good thoughts for Ryan, and the dad who's worrying about him.
Posted by: Sister Spikey Mace | December 8, 2006 9:16 AM
Thinking of you both....
teenagers, gotta love them!!!!
Posted by: MG | December 8, 2006 10:29 AM
well good luck with all of that.
Posted by: Zoely | December 8, 2006 10:36 AM
Good luck TG. I hope that things go really well.
Posted by: flygirl | December 8, 2006 10:46 AM
Good luck with the eyes and I'll think good thoughts for the both of you. Also as I tell my patients, it doesn't hurt for second opinions. Hopefully you're seeing (no pun intended) a retina specialist. Happy thoughts to you and your son!
Posted by: jillie | December 8, 2006 11:16 AM